On a Personal as well as Professional fronts, we have discussions,arguments, Q & A sessions, meetings ,etc. where we either listen or express our views for a certain topic but have you observed that there are times when even though the whole discussion is over, the most important point is missed? Think about it樂
If the basis for the discussion is not discussed but all other things which are actually are not worth mentioning there are discussed, both our Energies and Time are wasted. What if the discussions or meetings are done in brief and only the important points are mentioned? Detailed explanation is given when required and not every time. This will save these precious resources of time and energy.
The Point is to put forth our views or opinions so clearly but briefly in front of everyone that there is not a chance left not to understand. But elaborate explanations should be provided when needed keeping in mind not to deviate from the topic.
This helps us grow personally as well as professionaly because if the discussions are brief and to the point, we have to “Think before speaking”.
Are you protected from the thoughts/opinions/views which are fed continuosly into your mind from all around you? Have you try to block them or stop them in someway? Think about it.
Becoming the master of your mind – the greatest tool in the world will help you to allow only those thoughts which you want to enter ..the thoughts which help us grow and help us surround ourselves with positivity which in turn increase our creativity manyfolds.
Try to Build up a shield of positivity around you. Every single day whenever you think you are being affected by the thoughts around you, let the shield protect you from them. You just have to think positively or mentally just think of the peaceful places you had visited or even seen on television or social sites or you can start saying mentally positive affirmations.
Remember always, you and only you can Build up The Shield, no one else can do that for you.
It is well known that Our Life is a Journey but with lot of twists and turns just like a Roller coaster Ride. But we have to make our own ways to get out of the situations which create hurdles. Every single day, we overcome so many challenges and if you observe carefully, you will find that in overcoming them, you are becoming more and more creative.
There are endless moments with so many emotions in our lives but its upon us to make go through them, feel them and learn what they teach us.
We had actually been learning all our lives, keeping on updating ourselves everyday with so many new things happening around us. Make this life one of the greatest teaching experiences and learn from them in a way that inculcates in you the desire to seek more.
Look around you. Right from the smallest organisms to Plants , Animals and Humans, Nature has already provided us everything which make us grow, thrive and live life at its best. Make the most of it and try to be a Learner.
Our minds are as we all know have the vast space for storage where right from our birth till death, every memory is stored. It’s the greatest tool provided to us. Utilise it to make your life the way you wanted to be.
Do remember to “Fly high in the sky but keep your feet on the ground.“
We often think of the places we have not visited yet. We plan to visit them but due to some reasons, you don’t. But that desire, that longing to visit those places still remains. When the day comes finally where you actually are standing there at that very place, the immense happiness and Joy you experience cannot be described in words.
Doesn’t these Beautiful places are like The Gateway to the life we always want to have. Just thinking about them calms our mind and we are at peace with ourselves. Amidst the chaos around us, these thoughts are like the rays of Sun spreading their warmth and make us feel at ease.
Instead of just trying, firmly make decision to visit these places in your life at least once. They leave their mark on us and the beautiful memories we make just when we visit them will be their with you forever.
Also, Travelling with family and friends is indeed amazing as it makes the journey all the more fun and enjoyable but make sure to Travel Alone too sometimes since it will give you a new experience and a perspective towards life as well as it helps to explore a wonderful yet completely different side of you.
The Journey you are on has everything which will make you think before taking a step towards it be it The Darkness, Fear, Anxiety, Pain but it also has The Light, Courage, Freedom and the Choice. You have to go through all of them to be your true self.
There are always two sides be it Darkness/Light, Pain/Courage, Freedom/Struggle and many more everyone of which help us grow and mature to become the Person we are meant to be. They all teach us how to face the challenges and stand up for what we are.
Everyday we wake up in the morning thinking about the day and hoping it will be amazing but if it is not , then what? Do we just sit and let the feeling of sadness pass over us or Do we move on with our life thinking that “This phase will pass, we will get through this”?
Our thoughts are like the seeds. Let us be committed to provide them complete nourishment in form of positive affirmations and love so that a beautiful plant (You) with all the fruits (peace, calm and Wonderful feelings) and flowers ( Essence of success and prosperity) along with thorns ( The support and foundation ) grow from it.
Observe yourself everyday. Look how you cope up with situations and challenges. Every single individual is unique and that includes YOU. Believe in yourself and understand what you are capable of. When you put all your focus on becoming the person you want to be, you do and that too very soon.
Look at how far you have come. If you carefully observe, you will be surprised by the immense strength and potential you have in yourself. The choices you have done and the paths you have crossed on this Journey of Life have made you grow and increased your understanding.
You are the Flame which lights the path you travel. Everyday appreciate and inspire yourself with positive words. Take care of yourself in the way a Mother takes care of her child. Shower unconditional love and kindness on YOU and Experience the peace and calm which starts happening.
Make yourself a Priority. Make this journey a beautiful one. Don’t copy others because you yourself are a masterpiece. Remember always to “BE YOU“.
For others you may have lied sometimes or been honest all your life but Have you been true to yourself? We all do have wear A Mask – Mask of Deception many times in our lives. Don’t we? What we are from the inside, are we the same person from the outside? Think about it.樂樂
Being Honest with yourself is the first step towards knowing the Real You. This will gradually help us expressing what we really are and being Honest to others as well. You become more aware when others try to deceive you since you can through their lies or deception very clearly.
The Mask may also be there to act on the things which normally you would have feared to do when you are your real self. It makes that fear go away. There are no lies and just honesty but only the identity is hidden.
Just like it is said that “Don’t judge the Book by its cover”, similarly the choice is ours – Do you want to show the Book ( The Real You) or just the cover ( The Mask) ? Remember to never deceive yourself since You are your best companion for your whole life. You will be there with yourself forever.
The word “Inspire” is like the fuel to help us to achieve our goals. It is a Push to start the journey of success which we might had stopped for some reason. But do you get inspired by others or by yourself? We often compare ourselves with others and then have thoughts related to what we lack instead of actually looking at what we already have in us.
What if “You become your own Inspiration“? Have you ever thought of that? Just observe yourself – the talents you have , the things you are passionate about, the paths you have travelled and the challenges you have faced. Have you ever stopped – No right!! You have kept on moving making your own path and facing the challenges head on. Doesn’t that inspire you?
The way you work and the mental stability with which you help yourself calm amidst all the chaos around you , it’s so Amazing. Never ever allow others to brainwash you with their expectations , philosophies and desires. Set your own expectations, fulfill your own desires and acheive your own goals .
Remember always that not a single soul in this world will inspire you the way you Inspire your own self.
There are situations in our life when we have to become a New version of ourselves. This happens when we pursue our passion by leaving our job or when failures happen or transferring into a new life or changing your routine.
It does becomes a Daunting task to move on from the life of comfort and pursue what we really are interested in but when you make up your mind and trust yourself that “I can do this”, it gradually develops into a habit.
There are 4 simple ways for Re-Inventing ourselves. We can called them DOTS:-
“D” refers to “Discover your strengths” in which you can learn to explore your potential and observe how you deal with different situations.
“O” refers to “Optimize Your Time” in which Time management plays a very important role. Manage your schedule as per your own comfort but do follow it every single day.
“T” refers to “Try things Out” in which you can try the solutions which you have for resolving the problems by experimenting. This also helps broadening your perspective towards life.
“S” refers to “Support Group” in which there are people like your Family, Friends or Colleagues which will help you not to deviate from the path you have taken for Re-Inventing yourself.
Remember to be the “Best Version of yourself” by learning and updating yourself everyday with the knowledge around you.
We often get stuck and are not able to move from a situation or a phase in life which had deeply affected us. Even if we want to forget the memory, it still is there haunting us from time to time. But do you want to let it do that or make your mind to move forward in life?
Our life is like a Beautiful Book with endless moments of Thrills, Entertainment , Joy , Pain and every single emotion that can be expressed . We experience them and keep on moving forward. Aren’t you curious to know how your next moment of life will be? You just have to “Turn the Page” and let the moment happen.
Every chapter in this book of life is a whole experience in itself. Let it teach you and guide you to achieve your Goals and Dreams. There will be decisions to make and choices to be made but you just keep on moving and turning the page.
Let everyday of your life be a Fresh Start which you live with complete Zest. Commit to yourself to be on the path till the end never to deviate from it no matter what happens. Take a vow to face every challenge head on. Make the most of everything whenever you turn the page of this Beautiful Book of Life.